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Mothering Magazine Sponsored Chat with Hathor the Cowgoddess --Hathor lives in the middle of urban sprawl with her dearest super-husband and three wee and wise kids. She has had an unassisted birth in the middle of her 700 square foot apartment, she breastfeeds on demand and in public, she shares sleep, maintains constant contact and unschools. Not only does she do all of this, she does it with grand style and verve. With extravagant and outrageous behavior. And with her trusty sidekick baby in a sling.

Hathor is the completely true product of the imagination of Heather Cushman-Dowdee, an outraged (because she might look distracted but she is paying attention! ) mama who has done almost all of the above (that part is autobiography)... except for the part that she totally makes up (those parts are wishful thinking). The raucous exploits of Hathor and her family are produced in comic form on the web and printed in many, many zines and magazines and books, too.

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5/3/06

60 mothers in attendance

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20:08:08 hathor Okay...well I don't see tina so perhaps we can get started with a question....I was hoping
20:08:12 synnora whoo hoo, so when do we post a question mark to ask questions?
20:08:26 iamthesmilingone testing
20:08:34 iamthesmilingone (first time in here)
20:08:42 tori4man you are here
20:08:47 iamthesmilingone :)
20:08:51 vmarchant What's the topic of discussion?
20:09:08 hathor we could talk about action plans and breastfeeding, but anyone is welcome to digress! so let's do a question mark or two
20:09:17 vmarchant ?
20:09:21 synnora ?
20:09:25 iamthesmilingone ?
20:09:34 mamaofthree ??
20:09:38 iamthesmilingone lol- that the heck does that mean!?!?
20:09:51 vmarchant Two questions, I think
20:10:06 hathor Okay  vmarchant my wee one has a bathing suit on her head!
20:10:08 iamthesmilingone Is it like raising your hand?
20:10:22 mamaofthree No, she just said a question mark or two, I was being different! LOL :D
20:10:22 snarfywarning Yeah smiling
20:10:23 vmarchant LOL mine just fell asleep NAk
20:10:46 hathor yes, and I'm gonna keep track somehow and talk cause Tina isn't here yet! *)
20:10:57 vmarchant Hathor, what types of breastfeeding action do you think need to take place to change the world"?"
20:11:01 wendy1221 I'm nak w/ the 7 mo old and the 2 yo is chanting na na na na na
20:11:17 hathor Well, I'm thinking we need to get pretty proactive
20:11:32 vmarchant How?
20:11:38 hathor in one week I got 4 action alerts that were pretty freaky
20:11:54 hathor I'm seeing that the world has gotten really anti-child
20:12:04 hathor very anti mother
20:12:31 hathor and I hate to use the dreaded family values words because they are so charged, but where the heck are they?
20:12:39 hathor the family values I mean
20:12:58 vmarchant Depends on whose family values, I gues
20:12:59 hathor So I think we should try and get beyone the reactionary
20:13:08 hathor oh yes!
20:13:19 vmarchant Reactionary?
20:13:30 hathor Although reactionary is good, because that's where my jokes come from
20:13:55 hathor yes, like we wait until a mama gets asked to leave a store and THEN we have a nurse in
20:14:17 mamaofthree I like the pink. LOL
20:14:38 hathor we're waiting to react, and then we do but we come off as being too earnest,reactionary and
20:15:30 hathor upset...which they use against us (they being the meanies who started it in the first place)
20:15:48 synnora Can anyone comment on what you say or do we have to wait until our name is called?  I have a question however I have input on thi squestion as well.
20:16:00 c_something Hello, everyone! Sorry I was a little late! Couldn't figure out how to get in! But I finally made it!
20:16:28 hathor I'm thinking we need to get proactive with the family values, education and information and lactivation
20:16:34 vmarchant Perhaps we don't need better family values" but rather better "valuing of families"?"
20:16:46 mamaofthree YES!
20:16:51 hathor Hey synnora your question
20:17:06 hathor absolutely on the valuing of families!
20:17:21 snarfywarning Good point Vm. :)
20:17:28 vmarchant thx
20:17:35 hathor Also,  family values doesnt HAVE to be so conservative...
20:17:50 hathor synnora?
20:18:11 synnora It is a breastfeeding question I hope you can help with.  I am currently 6 months pregnant and milk is dried up but Adam is nursing more and more and it is really making me fatigued.
20:18:18 synnora LONGgg question sorry
20:18:26 wendy1221 I think at least half of the adults in this country have attachment disoreders of some degree--makes it hard for them to value anythiing but themselves
20:18:46 synnora Is there anyway to increase supply when pregnant or gently lessen the nightly nursing?
20:19:36 synnora or is that not the type of breastfeeding questions you were going for?
20:20:02 hathor Well, I never made it past the third month pregnant before my milk dried up and my big kids started to wean...
20:20:19 wendy1221 we did daddy snuggling when I was pg w/ my 7 mo old, and sleeping w/ daddy between us. 2yo started sleeping thru the night. Don't think there's any way to increase supply while pg
20:20:31 hathor sorry it took me so long, I'm on my own tonight and the kids are trying to make fish sticks!
20:20:59 synnora My hubby is very selfish with sleep and is no help at allpast 8pm at night.  :(
20:21:04 hathor Yeah, and the 'fatigue' doesn't really go away...
20:21:10 Webmama_Tina I'M SOOOOOOO SORRY MAMAS!!!!
20:21:12 wendy1221 I dried up early as well, but my guy didn't seem to care. He nursed like crazy at first, them slowed way down
20:21:23 Webmama_Tina i can't believe i totally flaked! :(
20:21:35 earthmama369 Hormones have so much to do with it, and to a large extent that's just how it goes, but I've found that rest and keeping my fluid intake up has really helped with soreness and basic supply (I'm 34 weeks, dd is 17 months)
20:21:39 Webmama_Tina i knew it would happen eventually that would happen...first time ever!
20:21:41 snarfywarning It's okay. We forgive you Tina. :P
20:21:44 Webmama_Tina :)
20:21:46 earthmama369 That said, rest is pretty hard to come by sometimes. . . .
20:21:46 Webmama_Tina thank you
20:21:50 hathor I've never had the glory of tandem nursing. :(
20:21:56 vmarchant It's OK- Hathor has the list of questioners
20:22:01 snarfywarning Tandem nursing is my dream <3
20:22:11 synnora really?  I am so excited I can't wait, it is just this dry nursing that is painful
20:22:16 wendy1221 It's more of a pain, but there are times that make it worth it. lol
20:22:31 hathor Hi tina, I'm making fish sticks answering and moderating!
20:22:37 hathor Holy cow!
20:22:42 snarfywarning My little one is still only 11 weeks, but I can't wait until the day that his little bro or sis is gobblieng at the other side. lol.
20:22:45 Webmama_Tina ok good :) i'm here now...what would you like me to do hathor? want me to set up the room and go the regular route or are you happy with the set up the way it is now? :)
20:22:47 vmarchant It's another mommy miracle!
20:22:51 earthmama369 Lansinoh is your friend during dry nursing!!
20:22:58 momtoone hi all
20:23:02 Webmama_Tina hathor you are THE woman! :)
20:23:06 Webmama_Tina er cow
20:23:07 synnora really I have it leftover from his early days, I never really needed it then.
20:23:09 Webmama_Tina lol
20:23:11 girlie_librarian lol to the Lansinoh!
20:23:11 snarfywarning Cow-woman. :D
20:23:15 Webmama_Tina rolf
20:23:17 Webmama_Tina rolf
20:23:18 Webmama_Tina even
20:23:19 Webmama_Tina something
20:23:24 snarfywarning Rofl?
20:23:24 wendy1221 lol
20:23:25 snarfywarning hahah.
20:23:26 hathor iamthesmilingone your questoin?
20:23:31 Webmama_Tina anyway, oh boy i can't believe i did that...put it on my calendar and everything
20:24:01 earthmama369 it doesn't help the inner soreness, but it sure helps the outer, and every little bit of sanity I can grab is a good thing ;)
20:24:02 iamthesmilingone When does milk dry up and if how possible would it be to nurse an adopted baby?
20:24:24 hathor you guys could throw in your question marks again, I'm kinda lost!
20:24:27 iamthesmilingone I can still get a little out and it's been SIX years
20:24:34 Webmama_Tina i'll gather the list now for ya
20:25:38 wendy1221 hey, my mom started leaking when she babysat my ds for a semester and it had been 22 years for her!
20:26:03 iamthesmilingone :yikes:
20:26:04 hathor For me it was a combination of things, my milk was really low, my kids are spaced 3.5 years apart and my fatigue for lack of a better word was too big
20:26:09 iamthesmilingone Not that that is a bad thing!
20:26:29 Webmama_Tina ok somebody PM me the list
20:26:35 Webmama_Tina and i'll take it from here. :)
20:26:54 wendy1221 what list?
20:26:56 iamthesmilingone