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Mothering Magazine Sponsored Chat with Mary Romaniec,
Parent counselor on practical steps parents can take to aid in their children's improvement and recovery from autism and author of "Daniel's Success Story" in the September/October 2004 issue of Mothering.
www.mothering.com
11/17/04
 

13:21:53 MRomaniec I have gotten quite a few comments from the article too.
13:22:03 Webmama_Tina do people email you about it?
13:22:07 Webmama_Tina or in real LIFE?
13:22:13 Webmama_Tina ack, stupid caps lock
13:22:33 MRomaniec They usually get my email from TACA , a group in California.
13:22:46 Webmama_Tina are you in california?
13:23:01 MRomaniec They refer them to my email. No, I just moved to Massachusetts.
13:23:13 Webmama_Tina oh right
13:23:17 Webmama_Tina how old is your son now?
13:23:28 MRomaniec Daniel is 5 and in kindergarten.
13:23:40 Webmama_Tina and still doing WEll?
13:23:46 Webmama_Tina argh, well?
13:24:16 MRomaniec Yes, he is doing very well but there are always other issues that go on with the kids on the spectrum.
13:24:38 MRomaniec In Daniel's case we are still dealing with his foot deformity caused by the mercury poisoning.
13:24:53 Webmama_Tina looking through the article again...i read it back when i first got the magazine....
13:25:32 MRomaniec I understand Mothering Magazine was at the DAN (Defeat Autism Now) conf. in LA. They passed out the Sept/Oct issue.
13:26:10 Webmama_Tina so you attribute your son's condition with the flu shot you had your 2nd trimester...correct?
13:26:32 Webmama_Tina that's interesting to note because during my last pregnancy my dh kept saying i should get one
13:26:40 MRomaniec I think the flu shot and the measles vaccine I had just before his conception caused him damage.
13:26:42 MOD_Angie ? lol
13:26:59 Webmama_Tina go ahead and throw it out there angie...we're small enough
13:27:01 Webmama_Tina :)
13:27:28 MRomaniec I could go on and on about flu vaccines pushed by doctors. . . :<
13:27:57 Webmama_Tina now with teh measles vaccine...that would mean there was residual toxic properties?
13:28:06 Webmama_Tina oh yes i hear you about the flu
13:28:20 Webmama_Tina the way i see it, if you are generally healthy, why do you need the vaccine?
13:28:30 MRomaniec Yes. Apparently it is common medical knowlege you should not conceive within a year after receiving the measles vaccine
13:28:46 MRomaniec But I was not told and Daniel was not exactly planned.
13:29:01 MOD_Angie My nephew was diagnosed with ASpergers (sp?) and HANES (don't know if it is related?), but I was wondering where my SIL would start on the diet.
13:29:16 MRomaniec I would have refused the vaccine that was INSISTED upon by the nursing staff at the hospital that delivered my daughter.
13:29:33 Webmama_Tina oh wow
13:30:01 MRomaniec For the diet I recommend a gradual, yet doable approach to implementing dietary intervention.
13:30:20 MRomaniec I implemented a 10 week program for parents who are just grappling with the diagnosis let alone starting a diet.
13:30:52 MRomaniec The diet is on the www.tacanow.com website
13:31:14 MRomaniec It is also listed under Autism Today, an online magazine.
13:31:25 MOD_Angie ok ty
13:31:43 MRomaniec I have learned this type of approach works well for any kind of dietary intervention when it has to become a lifelong thing.
13:32:42 Webmama_Tina last winter i was pregnant with my son and the news kept pushing the importance of getting the flu vaccine...i just didn't feel it was necessary...tend to doubt media hype anyway, but it just didn't seem right that pregnant women receive it...and they were saying ESPECIALLY small children and pg women....how screwed up is thaT???
13:32:49 Webmama_Tina of course my dh believes it
13:32:49 MOD_Angie my other nephew has some form of autism, but my BIL is too bullheaded to get him checked out! URGH!! So, my hubby's sister and brother both have a child with autism, and people don't understand why we don't vax since it runs in the family. GEEZ!
13:32:55 MRomaniec Ironically I find many of the parents I speak to lately have kids who are bi-polar, ADD, ADHD or other issues, not autism.
13:33:17 MRomaniec One flu vaccine mercury levels is equal to 600 cans of tuna.
13:33:36 MOD_Angie scary!
13:33:43 Webmama_Tina wow
13:33:46 MOD_Angie I don't eat that much in a year!
13:33:55 Webmama_Tina so mercury is also causing add?
13:34:31 MRomaniec When the CDC was pressed for why they advocate women and children to avoid fish but they PUSH vaccines that contain mercury they answered We were afraid they would not vaccinate." And this was from a senior person at the CDC."
13:35:15 MOD_Angie SAD!!
  MRomaniec The increase in vaccines to the U.S. kids is being correlated with a rise in lots of things. Barbara Loe Fisher touched on it in her article in the same issue.
13:35:53 MRomaniec ADD and ADHD are considered on the autism spectrum.
13:37:28 MRomaniec I find myself lately also speaking to physicians on how to help their child with autism. Their own colleagues are unable to help or actually ridicule their efforts.
13:39:11 Webmama_Tina ugh, i'm copy/pasting some of this to my dh in icq and he's asking me if maeven is up to date with shots.....*sigh*
13:39:33 MRomaniec How old is your daughter?
13:39:42 Webmama_Tina 4
13:40:03 MRomaniec The next vaccines she is slated to get will be the MMR booster and tetanus just before kindergarten.
13:40:30 MRomaniec For my typical daughter we had her antibody tithers tested which showed she was fully immunized and not in need of further vaccines.
13:40:33 Webmama_Tina he's asking me what the difference is between constant mercury level and one-shot big levels.""
13:40:51 Webmama_Tina well she's going to be homeschooled and she's not up to date currently because i've selectively vaccinated
13:41:20 MRomaniec It is what is known as the holistic" approach (as the CDC terms it). They do not count the micrograms injected into an infant over a period of time . . .like six months."
13:41:45 MOD_Angie Tina, why does your hubby think she needs to be fully vaxed?
13:41:48 Webmama_Tina my dh has never read up on any of this...so he's not scared about it like i am
13:41:57 MRomaniec The average US kid receives six time more than what is considered safe" for a 150 pound man. And they receive it by the age of six months."
13:41:58 Webmama_Tina he's very mainstream in his medical thinking
13:42:03 Webmama_Tina he doesn't tend to question the docs
13:42:18 Webmama_Tina although i push very hard and i don't let him NOT be educated....i read him things
13:42:36 Webmama_Tina 6 times more what? mercury?
13:42:55 MRomaniec I have had to learn the hard way the US docs are very behind on this issue. And they are positively intimidated by the AMA, CDC, IOM and NIH into towing the party line.
13:43:01 MOD_Angie My hubby wrote an excellent blog about vax at http://www.data-for-all.com/blog/index.php?p=27
13:43:08 MRomaniec Yes, mercury.
13:43:40 MRomaniec To educate yourselves please read the book What your doctor may NOT tell you about childhood vaccines" by Dr. Stephanie Cave."
13:43:54 MRomaniec I am not giving it to pregnant women at baby showers.
13:44:23 Webmama_Tina not or now?
13:44:34 MRomaniec Sorry, NOW.
13:45:01 MRomaniec I wish I knew then what I know now!!
13:45:23 MRomaniec Not one day goes by when I am not reminded how my son was injured needlessly.
13:45:37 MOD_Angie my dh was uneducated about vax before our 2nd dd, but now he researched A LOT and put it in his blog.......I think his research stemmed from his 2 nephews having problems and he didn't want our dd's to have a reaction
13:46:30 MRomaniec There are some great websites included 909shot.com, VACinfo.com, and about six others. They even have the list of what is known as hot lots", meaning contaminated with LOTS of mercury."
13:46:33 Webmama_Tina well we don't have any reactions in our family...but i am so torn because i'm scared of the vaccines and scared of the diseases
13:47:00 MRomaniec The thing is Tina, we don't know the long term on any of this.
13:47:25 MRomaniec The kids of the 1990's may have escaped autism, but who is to say their immune systems have not been compromised.
13:48:00 MOD_Angie i totally agree, mary
13:48:02 MRomaniec Toss on lots of antibiotics, environmental factors and evenutal adulthood and the formula is different.
13:48:04 Webmama_Tina that's the thing...its all so confusing!
13:48:41 Webmama_Tina the diseases ARE still out there...and yet i know too much about vaccines to feel they are safe
13:49:06 MRomaniec I believe we are facing a long term epidemic of autoimmune disorders including chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, MS, rheumatoid arthritis, ALS, schizophrenia, etc.
13:50:17 MRomaniec I mentioned this on the air with a nationally acclaimed immunologist. She declared I was absolutely right. She sees a crisis in the US health in the years to come.
13:51:04 MRomaniec Let me illustrate a bit. When you and I were children, how many did you know who had peanut allergies? Asthma? ADD? ADHD?
13:51:04 MOD_Angie oh cool
13:51:13 MOD_Angie no one
13:51:49 Webmama_Tina dunno...didn't know much about it
13:51:49 MRomaniec Exactly. So what happened to change the dynamic in this generation of kids? What caused their immune systems to be weaker than the generation of kids before them?
13:52:14 Webmama_Tina welcome khrisday!
13:52:18 khrisday thanks tina
13:52:21 Webmama_Tina we're casual today, slow chat
13:52:30 Webmama_Tina feel free to just jump in
13:52:35 khrisday I haven't been to a chat here before
13:52:55 khrisday but I just checked the board and saw this was going on now
13:53:10 MRomaniec Do you have a child with autism or know someone who does?
13:53:19 khrisday and since I have an 8 yr old son with Asperger's, I thought I'd check it out
13:53:54 MRomaniec When was your son diagnosed?
13:54:13 khrisday he was diagnosed with PDD-NOS and mild MR at 3
13:54:18 khrisday and AS at 4 1/2
13:54:25 MRomaniec Are you doing any interventions for him currently?
13:54:50 MRomaniec The MR label does not always fit the Aspergers child.
13:54:54 khrisday right now we homeschool, and have just moved so all of his services are on hold
13:55:06 khrisday he isn't MR- he just couldn't do the test at the time
13:55:13 MRomaniec What state are you in?
13:55:34 MRomaniec I didn't think he was MR.
13:55:35 khrisday he's already tested in the normal -high range for IQ
13:55:40 khrisday we're in California
13:56:13 MRomaniec Who HOO! Where? I know many folks and resources in CA.
13:56:18 khrisday he was in a social skills therapy program before we moved, but I have been told they don't have such a thing around here
13:56:38 khrisday if you knwo of anyone/anything in the high desert or San Bernadino County- lay them on me!
13:57:27 khrisday we're in Victorville
13:57:36 MRomaniec We may have to discuss your IEP issues privately. And I am VERY familiar with the high desert area and the Regional Center out there. I will hook you up with some folks that can guide you. You can email me privately at MRomaniec@aol.
13:57:48 khrisday ok- thanks
13:57:58 khrisday we homeschool so he doesn't have an IEP
13:58:02 MRomaniec I am mentoring families in your area and you're right they have very little in the way of services.
13:58:22 Webmama_Tina mary, if my child has never had a vaccine reaction do you think she's probably fine with future vaccines?
13:58:35 khrisday I was shocked when the RC told me they didn't have a social skills program
13:58:56 MRomaniec My opinion is get her tithers checked to determine if she even needs them.
13:59:05 MRomaniec If not, then avoid the vaccines.
14:00:12 khrisday if you think about it- before they have a reaction, most kids have never had a reaction
14:00:16 khrisday does that make sense?
14:00:25 MRomaniec Your child may be absolutely fine from here on out on all vaccines and antibiotics. But my experience tells me to avoid both if you can.
14:00:49 Webmama_Tina ok i'll ask my dr about that
14:00:57 Webmama_Tina i never got her hep b or chicken pox
14:01:11 MRomaniec My son was born with issues but he went over the top after his MMR and varivax. Then he had a 105 fever and lots of diarrhea.
14:01:23 Webmama_Tina mmr we got divided up.... M and then another time the other M and then another time the R
14:01:43 khrisday my son reacted to the pertussis vaccine- he got the live one
14:01:46 Webmama_Tina but now i'm told they cannot divide them up anymore...not provided that way anymore
14:01:52 MRomaniec Hep B vaccine is linked with juvenile diabetes from what I hear. There are pancreatic stem cells in the Hep B vaccine.
14:02:04 Webmama_Tina DTP she got together cuz they don't do it separate...and she's never had a reaction
14:02:06 MRomaniec Not true.
14:02:30 Webmama_Tina which part is not true?
14:02:38 MRomaniec Not true on the dividing of vaccine availability. It is available. Doctors are remiss to bring it in because it costs more.
14:02:41 Webmama_Tina hi andrea!
14:02:52 khrisday the doctors like to say they can't" get things separate, when in fact they may not stock them in their ooffice but they coudl be ordered"
14:02:58 Andrea hi! Strike two on this chat for me, huh?
14:03:08 Webmama_Tina i have a really awesome doc, so i'll have to ask him about that
14:03:12 khrisday hi andrea
14:03:14 Webmama_Tina lol andrea
14:03:15 MOD_Angie Health Depts have the divided shots
14:03:31 Webmama_Tina my ped totally supports people who don't vaccinate
14:03:40 MOD_Angie that is gr8
14:03:41 MRomaniec You can even go online and research the availability of vaccines in single doses. It is there.
14:03:43 Webmama_Tina my dh wants to go to him and ask him what he thinks we should do
14:03:46 khrisday my dd hasn't had any vacs
14:04:00 MOD_Angie my family sees a PA, and she supports our parenting decisions
14:04:08 khrisday and we were kicked out of one ped's practice for that
14:04:10 Webmama_Tina well, my goodness, just when its time to end we finally get people in here, lol
14:04:13 Andrea I think we have the same doc, Tina? let me know what he tells you to do...we dont plan on vaxing Piper for a while but...
14:04:16 Webmama_Tina mary, do you need to go?
14:04:30 Andrea I had a parent teacher conference at Gavin's pre-k..sorry!
14:04:32 MRomaniec In Dr. Stephanie Cave's book she has a recommended schedule for vaccines.
14:04:39 MRomaniec No.
14:05:27 MRomaniec In the UK a full 25 percent of the population no longer vaccinates.
14:05:31 khrisday oh- if anyone wants a great website with a message board and chats- check out www.bbbautism.com
14:05:37 Webmama_Tina well this has been a casual chat since we didn't have anyone here til just recently...so y'all can just throw out your questions to mary and mary just let us know when you need to go?
14:05:43 MRomaniec Now they are having a measles epidemic and the population still won't vaccinate.
14:06:07 MRomaniec No problem.
14:06:09 Webmama_Tina so what do you suggest mary? about vaccinating? selective?
14:06:37 MRomaniec In a genetically predisposed child, avoid vaccines.
14:06:50 Webmama_Tina i hear that....but i don't seem to have one
14:06:55 MRomaniec Geneticially predisposed can be anyone who has autoimmune in the genetic background.
14:07:19 khrisday what about mental health issues? woudl you consider that also predisposed?
14:07:40 MRomaniec Also, avoid vaccines at birth and prior to six months of age. Challenge why your child needs HEP B before he/she is a sexually active teenager.
14:07:44 Webmama_Tina so far she's never even had any of the normal" reactions...much less severe...and i don't know of anyone in our family that reacted...but then we don't really know cuz no one really paid attention before...but there's no autism in our family at least that i know"
14:07:46 khrisday so anyone with allergies in the family woudl be considered predisposed, right?
14:08:06 MOD_Angie Measles and Rubella aren't really that serious of diseases. I have done TONS of research this past few weeks cuz we are thinking my dd had one of 2. I thought to myself well if she had Measles or Rubella that is gr8 cuz now she has natural immunities.
14:08:08 Webmama_Tina yeah i said no to hep b
14:08:12 Webmama_Tina and chicken pox
14:08:26 MRomaniec Not sure. It depends on the mental health condition. I have noticed a correlation in ADD, ADHD, bipolar and schizophrenic adults.
14:08:41 Andrea Gavin had a pretty rough delivery. lots of pitocin, LOTS of drugs..after his three mo' shots, he started having sensory problems. Am I crazy to think his delivery made him pre-disposed?
14:08:44 Webmama_Tina my dh had severe allergies as a child
14:08:46 MRomaniec I would say no to chicken pox too but that is up to you and your family.
14:08:48 Webmama_Tina but my dd never has
14:09:22 MRomaniec NO, you are not crazy. My son had the same and came out with sensory issues. He was also exposed in utero to mercury.
14:09:45 Andrea I've always blamed" his delivery for starting all of this."
14:09:46 khrisday I was told that sensory issues cna be a part of Post TRaumatic Stress Disorder
14:10:07 MRomaniec BTW, I had measles three times as a kid and two measles vaccines. I still have no tither and am considered health.
14:10:21 MOD_Angie REALLY?? How weird?
14:10:25 MRomaniec Sensory issues are also a symptom of mercury poisoning.
14:10:47 Andrea Its amazing how many mercury poisoning symptoms are EXACTLY THE SAME as Austism symptoms.
14:10:52 khrisday yes- which woudl make sense in my daughter's case since she had surgery without anesthesia when she was less than 24 hours old
14:11:23 MRomaniec Surgery for what?
14:11:47 khrisday she had Extra Corporeal Membrane Oxygenation
14:12:08 khrisday because she coudln't get enough oxygen
14:12:09 MRomaniec I also have know kiddos who were possibly poisoned with mercury by mom's dental appointment. Mom may have swallowed part of the amalgams.
14:12:56 khrisday it's a last ditch treatment for very severe meconium aspiration
14:13:06 Andrea so I held off on dd1's vaxes...she's 3.5, and we're almost caught up now. DD2 (six months old tomorrow) hasnt had any. I'm not sure if its genetic or environmental, afraid to take chances.
14:13:18 MRomaniec Wow, is she affected too?
14:13:23 khrisday where they cut a vein or artery and bypass the heart/lungs
14:13:53 MRomaniec Tina, to illustrate your question about adult immune issues let me tell you about my brother.
14:13:54 khrisday she has sensory issues, and very minor thigns- we have been told it's PTSD and a few other things
14:14:10 khrisday but not like my son- and she has never had and vaxes
14:14:16 Webmama_Tina forgot to say...welcome, ladies to this week's mothering magazine sponsored chat....our topic today is curing autism with diet, with guest speaker mary romaniec, author of daniel's success story" in the sept/oct issue of mothering"
14:14:18 MRomaniec As a child he was ADD or something like it. At 18 he went into the ARMY and received 11 vaccines in one day.
14:14:40 Webmama_Tina since this is a casual chat today with very few chatters, feel free to just throw your questions out there and mary can answer as we go
14:15:07 Webmama_Tina we're already past the time of the chat, so we are just continuing as long as mary is available...when she's got to go, we'll pack it up
14:15:08 candipooh talk to me about dental....I might be pregnant (i am waiting for a + test) and I am going to the dentest
14:15:17 MRomaniec After he got out he had chronic fatigue syndrome and gut issues. Later he was diagnosed with schizophrenia and a heart malady associated with mercury poisoning. He had a heart attack at 38.
14:15:37 Andrea Oh my gosh.
14:15:40 MRomaniec Just ensure they use a rubber dam if they work on your fillings.
14:15:41 khrisday just another reason to love the army, eh?
14:16:19 Andrea thats just downright scary
14:16:27 MRomaniec I heard on the radio just yesterday they (AKA US govt) have finally decided Gulf War Syndrome might be associated with the vaccines our soldiers received.
14:16:55 Andrea hmm...ya think? *major eyeroll at them"*"
14:17:02 MRomaniec I kept hearing about Saddam Hussein's gases, etc. and knew they were looking everywhere but the obvious place.
14:17:30 MRomaniec And our recent group of soldiers endured even more vaccines than the first.
14:17:38 khrisday it's those lurking WMD's
14:17:45 Andrea so sad.
14:17:53 Webmama_Tina i grew up in the military...we had to have the dtp shot twice within a short period of time when we were getting read to go to okinawa...because they lost our records
14:18:07 Webmama_Tina my bro and my arms swelled up like balloons and hurt tremendously
14:18:20 Andrea Oh my gosh, Tina! That's ridiculous.
14:18:22 Webmama_Tina i remember wearing a sling to school and flinching whenever anyone came near
14:18:29 Webmama_Tina i was about 11
14:18:35 Webmama_Tina my bro was 9
14:18:38 Andrea :<
14:18:41 MRomaniec Again, tithers can be a godsend in cases like this. Like the families in New Jersey who recently had to go to court to not have their kids vaccinated again after the school lost records.
14:19:23 Webmama_Tina oh my mom is here and she is telling me it was yellow fever and typhoid , not dtp
14:19:30 MRomaniec I know we were supposed to discuss diet and the such so perhaps I can at least share some nutritional suggestions when it comes to vaccines.
14:19:34 Andrea I just enrolled the kids in pre-k, and was told I was the only mother they had ever heard of that didnt vax on schedule. They made a huge deal out of it.
14:19:46 Andrea Sounds good..
14:19:58 MRomaniec Increase Vitamin C and selenium before the dental exam and before any vaccine.
14:20:17 Webmama_Tina and yes we did have to have it twice because they lost the records
14:20:22 MRomaniec This should help with the detox.
14:20:30 Webmama_Tina she says there was a week in between having them
14:20:50 MRomaniec That's not good.
14:21:03 Andrea how much C and selenium? Say, for a four year old?
14:21:06 Webmama_Tina yeah it HURT
14:22:02 MRomaniec Increase Vitamin C to at least 1000 mg both before and after the procedure. I am not sure on selenium but I can tell you it will be above RDA.
14:22:19 Andrea thx
14:23:06 MRomaniec The main thing I wanted to share with the group about autism is that it is treatable. My son proved it.
14:23:32 MRomaniec He may be the exception to the general rule but I am remiss to tell any parent their child may not be like mine.
14:23:36 Webmama_Tina that's very good to know
14:23:51 khrisday how old is your son now?
14:24:09 MRomaniec I still cry when I hear how parents are told lifelong disorders"."
14:24:14 Webmama_Tina i saw a tv show on curing autism a LONG time ago where they cured a little boy by doing repetitive therapy with him....
14:24:14 MRomaniec Daniel is 5.
14:24:38 MRomaniec That is one method but an all out attack on the disease works best in my opinion.
14:24:53 MRomaniec We call it the three-legged stool. . .diet, biomed and behavior therapy.
14:25:00 Webmama_Tina locked themselves in a bathroom they converted into a small workspace and just worked one on one with him for months and months and months....not sure how true the show was....but always made me curious if that was possible
14:25:01 Andrea what do you recommend for children who have severe oral aversions? I cant get Gavin to eat much of anything, unless its crunchy (aka gluten)
14:25:07 khrisday that's what we did with our son
14:25:13 MRomaniec What diet, what biomed and what behavior therapy is up to how it works with the kiddos.
14:25:15 Andrea yeah, Tina, it was like ABA...I do that w/ Gavin
14:25:33 Webmama_Tina so that actually works?
14:25:45 MRomaniec Gavin may be addicted to the effect of the gluten, not the flavor.
14:25:50 Andrea but not strict ABA...its very customised, and much more gentle than aba
14:25:54 Webmama_Tina they said they were trying to break into their world or something....it was decades ago, i don't remember the details
14:25:55 MRomaniec You can bread and fry non-gluten food too.
14:26:05 Andrea so how do I get him to eat without throwing everything up
14:26:07 khrisday it must have been about the son light program
14:26:09 MRomaniec Was it SonRise?
14:26:10 khrisday sounds liek it
14:26:21 Webmama_Tina son light?
14:26:22 khrisday there ya go- son rise not son light
14:26:27 Webmama_Tina sonrise?
14:26:28 Webmama_Tina lol
14:26:32 Webmama_Tina what's that?
14:26:37 MRomaniec If he is throwing everything up then you have other issues.
14:26:49 MRomaniec SonRise is a program based out of Massachusetts.
14:26:54 khrisday wwww.gfcfdiet has really good resources
14:26:56 Andrea I guess what I mean is that if an aversive texture hits his mouth, he gags.
14:27:08 MRomaniec The kid recovered" with intense behavior therapy and some dietary restriction."
14:27:08 Andrea not that he's throwing everything up
  MRomaniec Gavin also needs OT therapy for his oral aversions.
14:27:26 khrisday my son used to gag at anythign wet, too
14:27:34 Webmama_Tina hmm, maybe that's what it was...i think they did a lot of rocking and spinning plates with him and stuff like that
14:27:38 MRomaniec Very common in the ASD child
14:27:39 Andrea he gets ot, but nw oral therapy
14:27:45 MRomaniec Yes, that is SonRise.
14:27:51 Andrea ooops..not oral therapy
14:27:53 khrisday yeah- they just did whatever he was doing at first to get him to notice them I hear
14:27:57 Webmama_Tina oh ok so it does actually exist
14:28:12 Webmama_Tina it was a tv movie so i didn't know if it was true
14:28:13 MRomaniec Yes, it exists.
14:28:23 khrisday the oral can be addressed in his OT if it's sensory, and also in speech therapy
14:28:28 Andrea because its through the school district, they wont do oral therapy.
14:28:35 Andrea but he does get OT twice a week.
14:28:35 MRomaniec I got an email from the boy" who is now a man. He is a Phd in psychology."
14:28:43 Webmama_Tina wow
14:28:44 khrisday have u talked ot the OT about it?
14:29:23 khrisday he doesn't need a separate kind of therapy, they just need to address it in his exhisting sessions
14:29:23 Andrea yep. they werent much help, and said they were to focus more on fine/gross motor coordination (he cant ride a tricycle or hold a pencil correctly for example)..he does get some tactile stuff in
14:29:24 MRomaniec School districts are supposed to provide oral motor therapy and aversion therapy. If the child cannot EAT, he cannot LEARN.
14:29:44 khrisday call an IEP
14:29:45 Andrea that's EXACTLY what I told them this morning in a meeting. EXACTLY.
14:29:58 MRomaniec If they do not have a qualified person on staff then you need to get treatment elsewhere but notify the school district they need to pay for it.
14:30:10 Andrea He comes off the bus crying every day simply because he's hungry.
14:30:19 khrisday that's really not good
14:30:32 Andrea he loves school, and learns quickly, but the food is a constant battle.
14:30:40 Andrea so what should I remove from his diet at home?
14:30:52 Andrea I know, its heartbreaking.
14:30:55 khrisday I would add new thigns before taking anythign away
14:31:05 khrisday that was what worked for us
14:31:09 Andrea like what?
14:31:14 khrisday gfcf foods
14:31:24 khrisday if that is what you're trying to eliminate
14:31:28 MRomaniec Yes, he definitely needs intensive OT for his oral issues. A doctor can write a note to that extent too.l
14:31:36 khrisday www.gfcfdiet.com has a great guide
14:31:39 MRomaniec Remove dairy first.
14:32:02 Andrea oh really? I'll have to talk to his ped. We just added Gavin to that practice. Dairy wont be an issue. he doesnt eat any really, anyway.
14:32:11 khrisday I woudl find gfcf alternatives to what dairy he's eating now, and remove the dairy first yes
14:32:25 Andrea except perhaps hidden dairy, but after being vegan , I know what to look for.
14:32:32 MRomaniec Go to www.tacanow.com and click on the GFCF section. There is a 10 week calendar there that will explain how to implement GFCF without going insane.
14:33:01 MRomaniec Sorry peds' do not understand dietary intervention.
14:33:13 Andrea adding both sites to favorites
14:33:24 Andrea oh no, I mean I'll talk to him about the OT script.
14:33:44 MRomaniec I also have a Trader Joes grocery list of GFCF kid friendly foods. Do not attempt this all at once. It will not be good for your child or you.
14:34:06 khrisday gfcfdiet has printable lists, too
14:34:11 khrisday those are really helpful
14:34:12 MRomaniec Make sure to increase calcium as removal from dairy depletes it. It can cause eye stemming.
14:34:38 Webmama_Tina mary, you are welcome to continue as long as you like...but did you want to make a cut-off time?
14:34:38 MRomaniec I would also recommend an epsom salt bath every night to help with detox.
14:34:53 Andrea taking notes...
14:35:00 Webmama_Tina i need to get going, but since this is so casual now, i'm ok with leaving y'all to continue without me
14:35:10 Andrea talk soon, Tina! :)
14:35:12 MRomaniec Yes, I actually should go soon but would be happy to have anyone correspond off list directly.
14:35:16 Webmama_Tina and the transcripts will email to me tonite and i'll post them when i can
14:35:20 MRomaniec MRomaniec@aol.
14:35:21 khrisday I already emaile dyou
14:35:33 Andrea that would be great...
14:35:40 khrisday and, yes I know I have a lot of typos lol
14:35:52 Webmama_Tina oh ok if you need to go then i'll stay and close up shop
14:35:59 MRomaniec I will see all of you later.
14:36:07 khrisday thanks for taking the time mary
14:36:13 Andrea Thanks Mary!!
14:36:26 Webmama_Tina thanks all!
14:36:38 Webmama_Tina it ended up being a productive chat afterall! :)_
14:36:56 khrisday yep!
14:37:03 Webmama_Tina take care!
14:37:09 khrisday bye bye

 

 

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