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21:03:46 |
Webmama_Tina |
welcome, welcome scott! |
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21:03:51 |
Webmama_Tina |
so glad to have you here tonite! |
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21:04:02 |
Webmama_Tina |
i'm juggling a toddler off an on so
forgive the time lapses :) |
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21:04:03 |
Dayna Martin |
Welcome Scott! |
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21:04:12 |
ModWendyCooper |
wooohoooo Welcome! |
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21:04:16 |
Webmama_Tina |
yay dayna, glad to see you here too! :) |
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21:04:25 |
Dayna Martin |
Thanks! |
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21:04:29 |
Scott_Noelle |
Hi Everyone! Here's my disclaimer... I'm
a notoriously slow/pensive writer...
haven't done much text chat... so we'll
see how this real-time thing works out.
I reserve the right to retract anything
I write without my usual mulling-it-over
time. :) |
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21:04:31 |
Webmama_Tina |
those who don't remember dayna, she did
a chat with us a couple weeks ago...her
transcripts are in the mtohering mag
section |
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21:04:32 |
Dayna Martin |
glad to be here |
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21:04:45 |
Webmama_Tina |
LOL scott |
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21:04:46 |
Webmama_Tina |
good to know |
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21:04:52 |
Scott_Noelle |
Hi Dayna! |
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21:05:02 |
Dayna Martin |
Hi! |
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21:05:02 |
Webmama_Tina |
the good news is that this chat does do
a typing button to let us know if you
are typing |
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21:05:12 |
Webmama_Tina |
well its supposed to...i don't know if
its always accurate |
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21:05:44 |
Webmama_Tina |
ok so lets get started....if you have a
question for scott you can start posting
a single question mark and i'll start
gathering... |
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21:05:59 |
Webmama_Tina |
and scott...why don't you give an intro
and add anything that you like to what i
already posted? :) |
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21:07:38 |
ModWendyCooper |
lol Scott needs a real time
transcriptionist... I just read what he
wrote above :) |
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21:07:51 |
ModWendyCooper |
all in fun Scott! |
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21:07:51 |
Scott_Noelle |
I guess I'd just like to welcome
everyone... my bio above says it all...
so ask away! |
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21:08:14 |
Scott_Noelle |
Don't get me started, Wendy. :) |
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21:08:21 |
Webmama_Tina |
hehe |
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21:08:34 |
Webmama_Tina |
ok since we don't have any questions
yet.... |
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21:08:57 |
Webmama_Tina |
i'm curious, scott, what your training
is? :) |
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21:09:26 |
mamautumn |
? |
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21:09:35 |
mdmfrank |
? |
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21:09:35 |
Webmama_Tina |
always interesting to hear...it says you
are a parenting coach...i don't know a
thing about that...can you tell us more?
i'm sure i'm not the only one...i only
just started learning about your work :) |
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21:10:13 |
Webmama_Tina |
by the way, mamas, i HIGHLY recommend
scott's enjoyparenting.com site...and
the podcasts on there are awesome! i am
learning so much! |
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21:10:24 |
Scott_Noelle |
I'm trained as a musician! The whole
convoluted story is on my website at
http://www.scottnoelle.com/#mybackground |
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21:10:29 |
manifestingmommyhood |
? |
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21:10:32 |
Webmama_Tina |
lol ok wow, cool! |
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21:10:35 |
ModWendyCooper |
love podcasts!!! |
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21:11:05 |
Webmama_Tina |
mamautumn you can go ahead with your
question :) |
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21:11:32 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter: mamautumn ...upcoming
chatters: mdmfrank,
manifestingmommyhood |
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21:11:45 |
mamautumn |
what exactly do you mean by paradigm
shift, can you talk about that? |
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21:11:51 |
Scott_Noelle |
They're not actually podcasts. I call
them "Virtual Coaching" sessions. But
you access them the same way you access
podcasts (except it's not free) :) |
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21:12:50 |
ModWendyCooper |
i wish i could charge for my podcast lol
you're lucky you have the knowledge to
spew and charge for it... awesome job! |
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21:12:56 |
Scott_Noelle |
mamautumn -- It's the shift from the old
"dominator" paradigm to the
"partnership" paradigm... |
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21:13:12 |
Webmama_Tina |
oh i see :) |
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21:13:16 |
pandora665 |
? |
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21:13:40 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter: mamautumn ...upcoming
chatters: mdmfrank,
manifestingmommyhood, pandora665 |
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21:14:25 |
mamautumn |
what are the first steps to take in the
shift |
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21:14:37 |
Scott_Noelle |
The partnership paradigm is actually
older than the dominator system (see
http://www.continuum-concept.org ) but we
can't apply the exactly the way Stone
Age people did... |
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21:16:02 |
Shanana |
? |
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21:16:13 |
Scott_Noelle |
...because of the realities of modern
life. Creativity is required to
integrate the old and the older, so I
sometimes call it the "creative
partnership" paradigm... (what can I
say... I like to make up words. ;) ) |
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21:16:17 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter: mamautumn ...upcoming
chatters: mdmfrank,
manifestingmommyhood, pandora665,
Shanana |
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21:17:37 |
Scott_Noelle |
Read "Ishmael" by Daniel Quinn for more
about the paradigm shift. |
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21:17:58 |
mamautumn |
thank you! |
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21:18:05 |
Miranda |
? |
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21:18:05 |
Scott_Noelle |
You're welcome! |
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21:18:21 |
Scott_Noelle |
Next? |
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21:18:25 |
mdmfrank |
I've been on your email list for a while
and really enjoy every daily groove.
Almost every single one gets forwarded
onto someone in my list, if not many! I
really enjoy your perspective, since it
meshes with my own yet introduces new
ideas and ways |
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21:18:26 |
Webmama_Tina |
mdmfrank, you're up! :) |
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21:18:30 |
Webmama_Tina |
ah she beat me :) |
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21:18:38 |
mdmfrank |
I've been on your email list for a while
and really enjoy every daily groove.
Almost every single one gets forwarded
onto someone in my list, if not many! I
really enjoy your perspective, since it
meshes with my own yet introduces new
ideas and ways |
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21:18:47 |
mdmfrank |
oops |
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21:18:52 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter:mdmfrank ...upcoming
chatters: manifestingmommyhood,
pandora665, Shanana, Miranda |
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21:19:05 |
Scott_Noelle |
Thanks, mdmfrank! Do you have a ? |
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21:19:10 |
mdmfrank |
of looking at things that I hadn't
thought of before. SO my questino |
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21:19:36 |
mdmfrank |
question is related to something going
on right now with my daughter, who is a
little over two and a half years old |
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21:20:09 |
mdmfrank |
Nearly every day she takes a nap in the
afternoon, and when she wakes up she
cries, a lot, and sometimes
unconsolably! |
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21:20:45 |
mdmfrank |
I can't figure out why or what to do,
I've tried a lot of things, and I don't
know if I just need a different mindset
or if there's something I might be able
to do to help her out. Any ideas? |
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21:21:23 |
Scott_Noelle |
The transition from waking to sleeping
and back is really quite dramatic. We're
used to it, so we don't think much of
it, but for some sensitive kids it's
really a major transition... |
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21:21:51 |
Scott_Noelle |
It's like dying and being reborn every
time! .... |
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21:22:21 |
mdmfrank |
yes, my mom told me that I used to do
that too. I don't remember what it felt
like though. |
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21:23:02 |
nurturenature |
? |
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21:23:17 |
Scott_Noelle |
Have you ever tried meditation? |
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21:23:27 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter:mdmfrank ...upcoming
chatters: manifestingmommyhood,
pandora665, Shanana, Miranda,
nurturenature |
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21:23:34 |
mdmfrank |
For myself? Or with her? I've tried it
myself |
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21:23:50 |
mdmfrank |
Oh, I can see where you're headed |
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21:24:24 |
Scott_Noelle |
I'm actually not much into meditating in
the usual way of contemplating your
navel :) but it's a good way to increase
your awareness of changing states of
consciousness. |
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21:24:34 |
Dayna Martin |
lol |
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21:24:39 |
Scott_Noelle |
Where was I headed? |
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21:24:52 |
ModWendyCooper |
lol |
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21:24:55 |
Webmama_Tina |
lol |
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21:25:05 |
mdmfrank |
Well, in my own mind you were headed
here: when I come out of meditation it
might be a lot like what she feels like
when she wakes up from a nap |
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21:25:36 |
mdmfrank |
Is that where you were headed? :) |
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21:25:53 |
Scott_Noelle |
Yes. (You're hired!) So the more you
understand the transition, the better
you can be present with her in it. |
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21:26:12 |
mdmfrank |
Are you hiring? (j/k) |
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21:26:18 |
ModWendyCooper |
lol |
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21:26:30 |
Dayna Martin |
can I come work with you too? |
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21:26:41 |
mdmfrank |
It's not easy to be present with her
when I also have a newborn to be present
with at the same time :P |
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21:26:42 |
ModWendyCooper |
where's the line.... |
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21:27:05 |
Scott_Noelle |
Dayna, you can help unschool my kids...
takes about 10 minutes a day. |
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21:27:30 |
Dayna Martin |
Anytime ;) |
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21:27:42 |
Webmama_Tina |
lol |
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21:27:47 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter:mdmfrank ...upcoming
chatters: manifestingmommyhood,
pandora665, Shanana, Miranda,
nurturenature |
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21:28:10 |
mamaearth |
hi - I joined a few minutes ago - I have
a question - is there a "line up"? |
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21:29:35 |
Webmama_Tina |
mamaearth, yup! :) |
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21:29:36 |
Webmama_Tina |
current chatter:mdmfrank ...upcoming
chatters: manifestingmommyhood,
pandora665, Shanana, Miranda,
nurturenature |
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21:29:42 |
Webmama_Tina |
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21:29:46 |
mdmfrank |
Thanks Scott, I feel a little stuck but
I will ponder it. Maybe if I meditate
on it. Meanwhile, I will wipe up the
water that just spilled all over the
keyboard. Deep breaths! |
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21:30:05 |
Webmama_Tina |
lol sillies |
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21:30:08 |
Scott_Noelle |
mdmfrank -- contact me off-chat... I
have a consolation prize for you. :) |
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21:30:22 |
Scott_Noelle |
info@enjoyparenting.com |
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21:30:45 |
mdmfrank |
Will definitely do. Thanks times
infinity! |
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21:30:46 |
Webmama_Tina |
manifestingmommyhood is up next! :) |
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21:30:55 |
manifestingmommyhood |
DH and I are both Adult Children of
Alcoholics. We are doing the best we
can, but it can be overwhelming since
neither of us has an example of healthy
parenting. I read your DG everyday.
There is so much to work on. |
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21:31:06 |
ModWendyCooper |
LOVE that username manifestingmommyhood |
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21:32:10 |
Scott_Noelle |
manifestingmommyhood -- I used to attend
ACOA meetings when I was a new parent.
Saved my butt. |
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21:32:23 |
Scott_Noelle |
(Can I say "butt"?) |
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21:32:28 |
ModWendyCooper |
lol |
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21:32:51 |
Webmama_Tina |
lol of course |
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21:33:00 |
manifestingmommyhood |
It is so easy to fall into the trap of
doing what your parents did regarding
discipline etc.... I don't want to do
that. It takes soooo much effort to
think before I act and sometimes my
patience runs thin. |
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21:33:05 |
Webmama_Tina |
its short for buttocks, you know! LOL
*giggle* |
